Thursday, September 10, 2020

Of Old Friends and New Tales

There is an old nursery rhyme or song that's come to mind lately.

It's rather short, kinda like Row Your Boat.

It goes~

Make new friends

but keep the old.

One is silver

and the other's gold. 

There are many quotes and sayings

advocating the importance of friends.

And I would venture to say, 

not one of them is an exaggeration.

We need friends no matter who we are or what our character.

I view myself as an introvert,

but I've been told by several employers in particular

how easily I speak with clients.

The thing is, I don't have problems talking.

(Just ask any of my grade school teachers:-)

It's the getting to know me bit that's a challenge

so my friends are real treasures to me.

There are those rare occurrences when you will meet someone,

and it's like you've known them all your life.

Those are the easiest and often the closest friendships.

There are also the friends that develop over time.

Those are nice in that there are typically few expectations

about what's ahead. 

They can become valuable in that each person knows

the habits and norms of the other person so they know well

just how to help or get along with the other person.

There are some "firey" friendships.

I'm not so sure those are real friendships.

And lastly,

there is a new kind of friendship.

Those found here online.

In a way, it's not really a new kind.

In years past, there were pen-pals that created friendships.

These friendships are a different kind of valuable

because there is no keeping up appearances.

There is no:

"I don't like going to the store with Jane because she wears too much perfume."


"She just walks so slow."


"I'm allergic to her cat."


Those things don't matter one iota if you aren't there with him/her.

(By the way, I actually like the name Jane and cats among other critters.

Too much perfume and slowly meandering through a grocery store

might get to me a little though.)

So what of these friends of different sorts?

What actually makes them important?

Well, you see~

humans are a herding animal.

I know there are some out there who don't take fondly to being called an animal

and others who take it as a compliment.

But we are creatures on this earth, and we were created with instincts.

Hubby and I were talking a while back, and he made the comment 

that he wasn't sure why but religious communities have lower crime rates.

The uncertainty was because people who are religious 

are just as likely to commit crimes from a statistics standpoint.

I said two words:

It's community.

He looked at me kinda sideways.

I continued~

Acceptance is what every person seeks deep down

 be it gang members or church members.

You follow the rules of what is acceptable in order to be accepted,

and you don't hurt your own.

If you break those rules, you are kicked out of the heard, gang, church,


That's where those friends come into play.

Our friends accept us.

They still love us even if we snort when we laugh,

even if we spill down the front of our shirt every time,

even if we aren't super stars,

even if . . . well, you get it.

Our friends accept us for who we are.

There has been quite a bit of discord in 2020.

Communities have been shattered.

Families have been separated.

Friendships have been strained.

These things are more important now than ever.

I guess the point of this post is just don't forget.

I know different areas have different mandates in effect,

but there are still things you can do.

Leave a bag of tomatoes hanging on the door knob of a neighbor

then call and let them know it's there.

(If you don't have any to spare, just let me know.  I have tons!)

Send a quick note or card to a friend or family member.

By all means hug your kids and grand-kids!

The risk of them feeling abandoned, unloved, or neglected

far outweighs that of a virus.

I worry about the unintended consequences 

of some of the things that are happening around us.

There are ways to make new friends also.

There is always someone who could use a friend.

Ask a pastor if there is an elder who can't get out much.

A phone call or dare I say even an old-fashioned letter

can go a long ways in brightening someones day.

Or, a couple other ideas:

a nursing home director - sorta adopt a grandparent

a childcare provider or family member with munchkins 

(kids love a phone call to them rather than to Dad or Mom)

Obviously, that one would need parental approval.

Teens!  They need reassurance as much as any 2 year old.

The last thing they need is to hibernate in their room for a year.

There might be someone who has a family member in hospice.

They are typically exhausted and could use a nicety.

I really think most of you are pretty kind and creative.

If you have more ideas,

please share in the comments.

So all of this to say,

remember to remember 💝


By the way, I'm one of those folks who loves to do those little 

random act of kindness.

They often cost very little, but can be very meaningful.

Okay, I'll stop (see told ya I could talk.)

I just want to encourage folks to be friendly.

Have a beautiful day.

Tuesday, September 1, 2020

A Moments Peace

Well, it seems I'm not the only one

who has had a bit of a rough go of things lately.

My dad ended up back in the hospital for a few more days.

It was far less severe, but still.....

He is now home again.

We stopped by yesterday, and he is looking better - yay!

He is also getting grumpy about meds and all the fuss

which for him is a very good sign.

The month of August, he spent 24 days in the hospital.

Mom was only permitted to see him once during all that time.

The rest of us were not permitted at all - 

nor were we allowed to call for a period of time.

To me that is inhumane.

I am sooo grateful he is home and improving - again.

The blackbirds are flocking at sunrise ~ the introduction to autumn :-)

Our garden is going bonkers.

I know many of us are preserving the harvest right now.

I had several humungo heads of cauliflower that

are now all blanched and frozen in meal sized portions.

Yum!  I love cauliflower.

The tomatoes are insane.

I have canned almost enough for our own use.

Mom hasn't had much time to do much canning

so I canned a dozen jars of diced for her 

and will give her some for juicing and making into sauce.

I will probably do another batch of diced for them as they ripen.

The rest will be shared 😊

That of course is part of the joy of a garden,

the sharing of the bounty.

This is just one round of several.

Work has been insanely busy, long days and short nights.

We've all been to the point of nearly complete exhaustion.

Hubby was 'rummy' he was so stressed.

Between family and work and trying to maintain our own living/home,

we were spent.

I actually asked him if he tied our trusty K9 companion one evening.

He answered No.

I went out and tied him, then came in and told Hubby I tied him.

He said Oh thank you.

Not 2 minutes later he went outside.

I asked what he was doing.

He said he went out to tie up the pooch, but I'd already done it. Oy!

So we took what we could get and went camping.

We left Friday late afternoon and came back Sunday morning.

There is no service at one of our favorite spots not terribly far from here.

I told Mom where we would be and how to get a hold of us if need be.

Unluckily, the propane regulator went out on the trailer

so it took over an hour to make a pot of coffee!

That's almost an SOS situation!

But luckily, we had the little propane stove since there is a fire ban

during the dry months so we were able to get our fix.

Hubby caught 3 trout over 12" and several smaller ones

(all released.)

That's more than he's caught all up in the past year.

He also took a nap Saturday!

I took my stitching along and actually got to sit and stitch.

Needless to say, it had been a while.

We are back at it now, but that little break did wonders for us.

We had lots we could have done,

but sometimes sanity is worth more than plum pickin', weedin', cleanin', 

or a million other things calling our names.

I heard a saying many years ago~

When your basket is empty, you have nothing more to give.

So many are dealing with life issues

be it societal changes, health, relationships, or preserving the harvest.

If you are among them, take a moment, 

even just a walk out behind the garage and look up to the heavens.  

Inhale as deeply as you possibly can and hold it for just a minute.

Let it fill you up and give you strength for the day.

Prayers for you all.

We have today~


Wednesday, August 19, 2020

An Explanation and A Little Excitement

I had this post nearly ready when life happened.
Thank you all for your patience, prayers, and kindness 
while our family dealt with my dad being sent to another city 
where he underwent two major surgeries in 5 days.
He was in the hospital for 17 days (? I think)
and was allowed only 1 visit from my mom 1 day before his second surgery.
He had never spent the night in a hospital in his life.
He has been healthy all his life.
This was so difficult for all of us who should have been there with him.
He was scared and knew nobody or nothing around him
and wasn't even allowed to have his shaving kit.
I just got to go get him and bring him home today.  
One of the first things Mom did was take the clippers to him
so he can shave later.
We are so relieved to have him home.
Again thank you.

And now the real post.

As many of you are aware, 
we moved about a year and a half ago.
It doesn't seem like it's been that long.
I s'pose that means I'm getting old.
About the time of our move, I put my Etsy shoppe on vacation mode.

A few months after moving, we had a huge yard sale.
We down-sized by about 40%.
I know I've shared that before,
but in doing so, I parted with a lot of vintage items.
I've spent a good part of my 29 years on this earth
(wink wink, gasp, cough - heehee)
attracting vintage items into my life.
Parting with some items has been difficult for me.
That probably sounds silly to some of you.
Anyways, we hope to one day downsize a little more.
Not quite as drastically as another 40%,
but continue to part with the excess.
Hubby and I each have our own areas of collectorism.
Yep, had to make up another word just for y'all.
It seems a little easier for me to part with things little by little.
Also, I finally have my sewing all in one room
which makes knowing what I have and have to do a bit more manageable.
Oh the UFOs I have discovered!
(un-finished objects) 
Up the mountain, I had shelves in the house
and totes on big shelves out in the shop, 
so I was constantly looking for things.
I am working to decrease my stash and have made some progress.
It's slow, but moving in the right direction.
(It's all up to God.)
And the last piece to all of this is: I have a goal.
And like so many lofty goals, it requires an investment.
I have recently begun a "Happy" fund.
It's really a savings.
I am saving to try to reach my goal - yay!

With that, I have decided to reopen my Etsy shoppe.
I am trying to figure out the best place for picture taking
at the new place and am not quite satisfied with the quality
(or lack there of) of photos I've taken.
As I get at least acceptable photos and appropriate packaging for mailing,
I am listing items both vintage and made by me.
I can't believe how the availability of normal mailing supplies
has been altered in recent months - nutty!
I've already made a couple sales - Wahoo!
And I have several listings in draft waiting for pictures
which haven't happened in the past 2 weeks.
Hopefully, things are calming down now
and I will be adding a couple quilts, bonnets, and vintage items
in the next few days.

If you would like to doddle on over and take a peek,
I am ever grateful.
If you have any questions about any of the items,
please feel free to contact me.
I don't mind questions at all and will do my best 
to answer them quickly and accurately.

So that's my "Little Excitement."
It's a fun outlet for me.

In the upcoming weeks, I am hoping to share
"A Big Excitement."
Well, at least for li'l ol' me.

And lastly, the photos above are of an old ghost town not far
from where I grew up.

Friday, August 14, 2020

She's ALIVE!

 Howdy All.

Just wanted to pop in and let you know

I've been dealing with a family emergency.

We'll return to our regular broadcast after these messages ~

or just as soon as things level out a bit.